As you are limping around emotionally wounded from yet another heated “discussion” about why you can’t remember to take out the trash more than once a month, it may be time to re-evaluate exactly why this problem occurs what seems to be all the time and why it seems to be such a “hot button” for you. Is the argument really about trash? Do you seem to be drifting farther and farther apart? If you are already sleeping on your buddy’s lumpy couch and asking yourself, “What should I do to get my ex back”, here is the key. This is the secret code that will make life better.
Say y?u’re sorry. Then s?y it was ?ll ??ur fault. Then ??y y?u’re ??rry ?n? m?r? time. Now, chances ?r? th?t won’t work for h?ving ?n?th?r girlfriend or boyfriend in the shadows, but it will work f?r m?n? ? “heated discussion”.
Maybe ?ou weren’t wrong. Maybe you thought this time w?? the time t? make a stand. Make ? point ?b?ut all th? ?ther things ??u d? for th? relationship-there ?re of course, many. Make ?ur? ?ou don’t forget to mention all of ?our partner’s shortcomings f?r the l??t six months. Let’s see, d?d you mention ALL 135 of them?
What ?x??tly did ?ou get ?ut th? th? “heated discussion” ?th?r than winning? Hmmmmm….you got to sleep ?n th? couch! You g?t t? hug the pillow! But ?our pride is intact. Hopefully, ?our pride will k?ep you warm ?t night.
Being a bit humble ?n ? relationship w?ll g? ? long wa? tow?rd? increasing its longevity. There ar? times wh?n compromise or complete capitulation will be needed. Do what ?ou h?ve to do, ?ust make ?ure th? consequences ar? worth it.
Sometimes the answer to, “what ?hould I d? t? g?t m? ?x back” will b? a bit more complicated. But f?r th? l?ttle disagreements th?t inevitably occur in a relationship, ju?t ?ay ??ure sorry, and move on.
from How to Get Your Ex Back - Make Ex Want You Back http://exwantyouback.sporkle.org/2014/12/27/what-should-i-do-to-get-my-ex-back-say-your-sorry/
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